“Let brotherly love continue.” (Hebrews 13:1)
When I’ve been out with friends from church, we are sometimes asked the question, “Are you sisters?” We usually just smile and answer, “No, just friends.” It’s amusing because often there is no physical resemblance between any of us, but the onlooker senses some connection they can’t quite define.
When asked the “sisters” question, a more accurate answer might be no . . . but also yes. We are not biological sisters; we are sisters in the Lord. That similarity they sense but can’t pinpoint is the spirit of the God we share. His blood connects us and unites us as family.
In several places, the New Testament speaks of “brotherly love.” The Greek word (philadelphia) can also be translated as “brotherly kindness” or “love of the brethren.” This is a love in which we cherish each other in the body of Christ. Jesus tells us that brotherly love is also a mark of true discipleship. It should be evident in our lives if we serve the Lord.
“By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:35, NKJV).
It’s easy to give someone a pat on the back or a quick hug and say, “I love you.” But love is more than just a mere word. Love is an action. In I John 3:18 we are told, “Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions” (New Living Translation).
What are some of the characteristics we will notice when love is in action?
Love is selfless and sacrificial. Love means being willing to put the needs of another ahead of our own desires. Jesus says in John 15:13 that “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends” (NKJV). He demonstrated ultimate love when He died for us.
Love shows humility. It does not exhibit selfish ambition or conceit (Philippians 2:3-4). It means we give preference to our brother or sister (Romans 12:10). We choose what is best for them.
Love forgives. First Peter 4:8 tells us that “Love will cover a multitude of sins.” Love does not keep a record of another’s wrongs but is willing to show forgiveness and move forward. When we forgive, we leave it in the past.
Love serves. There are so many meaningful ways in which we can serve others—an encouraging note, a delivered meal, a listening ear, celebrating their successes, teaching a skill, or tutoring a child. We all can use our giftings to bless others. “God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another” (I Peter 4:10, NLT).
Love is compassionate. It is tenderhearted and cares about the welfare of others (I Peter 3:8). It is quick to help and to support a brother or sister during a difficult time in their life.
Volumes have been written on the topic of love. It would be impossible for us to describe it all in one short devotion. But what we can do is consider ways to personally demonstrate the love of Christ to those around us. This means we will support them through difficult times. We will show compassion and concern. We will pray for them and speak encouraging words into their lives. We will serve them.
“Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith.” (Galatians 6:10, NKJV)
We are all part of the great family of God and are united by love.
Thank You, Lord, for making me a part of this wonderful spiritual family. You have given me a beautiful example of what pure love looks like. In turn, help me to show that same love and compassion to my brothers and sisters. Open my eyes to ways I can serve You by serving others.
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