“Sorrow is better than laughter, for sadness has a refining influence on us.”
Ecclesiastes 7:3
I know, this scripture is usually recited in times of utter despair as a means of encouragement. While the above scripture is 100% true, it can be a hard truth to swallow in moments of heartbreak, loss, and tragedy.
Think back over your life and remember all the moments that truly defined and shaped you as an individual. Chances are, most of them may be trials you had to face, storms you had to weather, and battles that needed to be fought.
No one enjoys the valleys of life, I know that I certainly don’t, but I do know that dark seasons are often when God speaks to us the most. Just like the old hymn says, He is the God of the valley.
The lessons you learn in your current situation will have a defining influence for the rest of your life. These seasons will shape your character as a Christ follower, and take you closer to your destiny in Him.
Allow yourself to be molded in this season, and don’t fear the pain of change. God has something incredible for you in this season of life, embrace it. Hold fast to His steady hand today.
