Living here in Canada, we have a famous coffee shop that many Canadians visit daily: Tim Hortons. Because of its popularity, it’s not unusual to see this chain referenced online. One meme in particular caught my eye. It said, “In Canada, we don’t say ‘I love you.’ We say, ‘Goin’ to Tim’s, want anything?’ and it means the same thing.” It gave me a chuckle, but also resonated with me. How I say “I love you” isn’t always by vocalizing those three little words. Early in our marriage, my husband and I set some boundaries based on the principle of…