Have you ever been in a situation where you asked for someone’s help, let’s say your car broke down and you need someone to pick you up on the side of the road, and when your ‘friend’ responds, it’s with a drawn out sigh, “ugh, yeah, I guess I can get you. I was in the middle of something, but if you need me, I will basically drag myself there.” *Emphasis and dramatization is mine. Well, you’ve received help, but it only makes you feel more hopeless because they clearly don’t want to come to your rescue, but you’re desperate.…